Things I’ve been thinking about.
Relationships, identity, anxiety, change, and the strange ways we learn to be people.
I write about the things that tend to get more interesting the longer you look at them.
Does This Even Count as Trauma?
If nothing “that bad” happened, does it still count? Sometimes the more useful question isn’t whether an experience qualifies as trauma, but whether it’s still shaping the way you think, feel, and relate to other people.